Salon has an interesting article about parents turning to technology to monitor their children, instead of to other people in their community.
“What is happening is that parents now assume the worst possible outcome, rather than seeing other adults as their allies,” says Frank Furedi, a professor of sociology at England’s University of Kent and the author of “Paranoid Parenting.” “You never hear stories about asking neighbors to care for kids or coming together as community. Instead we become insular, privatized communities, and look for
technological solutions to what are really social problems.” Indeed, while our parents’ generation was taught to “honor thy neighbor,” the mantra for today’s kids is “stranger danger,” and the message is clear—expect the worst of anyone unfamiliar—anywhere, and at any time.
This is security based on fear, not reason. And I think people who act this way make their families less safe.
EDITED TO ADD: Here’s a link to the book Paranoid Parenting.
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